Was my husband rite to keep this from me or should i be mad?

Ok my last question came out wrong...my husband bros been havin partys i been going but notice they dnt really say hi or anthing while my father in law had a bbq for my bro in law of course my husband wanted me to go soo i did while my bro inlaw didnt shw cause i went and now i found out he dnt want me to go to his party sat. My husband knew he didnt want me there but yet told me to go. Why?? Why did he let me look stupid?? Why didnt he tell me i wasent invited? Hes my husband i feel like nw i cant trust him am i worng to feel like that?